AN IDEA ENLIGHTENS YOUR LIFE

Generally people become disheartened when they feel humiliated and try to drag themselves into darkness. It may be either because of their appearance, their financial status or from any other reason. Often adolescents feel shy with their ugly physical appearance and feel embarrassed to face people. This situation make them non confident and affects their growth path. Sometimes societies try to make the people feel humiliated in the public by laughing on them and this situation creates a feeling of revenge in them.  Whenever you are in this situation, you must accept it as a challenge instead of getting frustrated and taking revenge.  You should make an innovative idea and work  very hard out to prove your capability. Your determination and confidence will help you to flush out this problem. However sometimes it is very common that people laugh at others only for fun.

Few years ago I and my friend got a chance to exhibit our paintings at Lalit Kala Academy in New Delhi. That time although I was having only 5-6 paintings and my friend had only 7-8 but we were very enthusiastic to exhibit them. We were embarrassed to see that the very next room was flourished with a number of beautiful Madhubani paintings. In other rooms enormous mesmerizing paintings were also exhibited by the artists. Hence we were very disappointed to see our deserted room with few paintings. As soon as visiting hours started, no one entered in our room. At last at the end of the day few people came and they wrote very disappointing words in feedback. We felt shameful but somehow we gathered ourselves and tried to do much better for the next day.

The next day also all rooms were looking crowded except our room. After a long time one visitor came and said to us in a very critic manner that your works are good but you both need to strive to be a good artist. Therefore we became depressed but planned to make a creative idea to make our exhibition successful. We started making few greeting cards as our room could look attractive. To attract the visitors towards our room we displayed all the greeting cards near the entrance of the room. Visitors were attracted towards the cards and they appreciated our work. In a few moments all cards were sold out. Now our happiness was in seventh happiness because after being so humiliated we made ourselves successful.

Thus we all are humiliated and feel neglected many times in the journey of our life but our determination to do something can throw it out from our life.

By:Shweta Jain

SLAVE OF MODERN CULTURE

Since the movement is spread out to eliminate inequality between males and females by the Government. Youngsters as referred to adolescents, want to assert their individuality, give values to their peers and try to run away from the pressure of their parents as well as elders. At this sophisticate age they feel restlessness in them due to the strict behaviour of their parents or to have the physical changes. In this situation they easily mesmerize towards everything that surround them as: fashion, alcoholic drugs etc. They seek a group or companion with whom they want to feel at ease and they especially attract to opposite gender. If they have understanding with each other that may help them to efface their problems but if they attract to only physical appearance, it may ruin their life. Our culture and ethics are disappearing from the society and modern culture is easily taking place due to powerful media. Even traditional outfits and accessories are diminishing and people love to wear western outfits and feel happy to be known as modern. Those who are not ready to accept this culture are symbolized as backward.

Even during school life some are allured to this culture and readily across their limits but some are provoked by their friends. School children are often being seen having drugs and smoking and instigate in fake affair that may be spoiling their life.

A girl named Meera, was scholar in studies. She spoiled her life and career to be slaved of the modern culture. At the age of 16 she had an affair with a boy and she often used to make physical relation with the boy and started taking drugs. In the beginning she was happy with this dazzling lifestyle. After some times when the boy gets her out from his life, she had to lead a life as a victim.

It may be good to make changes in your life if you need to update yourselves to accept modern culture but often it may bring bad result if you adhere to it and be slaved. At this situation people often turn astray to build a relation with a fake person or get addicted to alcoholic drugs.

UPDATE YOURSELVES ACCORDING TO TIME BUT DO NOT BE ADDICTED

By : Shweta Jain