AN IDEA ENLIGHTENS YOUR LIFE

Generally people become disheartened when they feel humiliated and try to drag themselves into darkness. It may be either because of their appearance, their financial status or from any other reason. Often adolescents feel shy with their ugly physical appearance and feel embarrassed to face people. This situation make them non confident and affects their growth path. Sometimes societies try to make the people feel humiliated in the public by laughing on them and this situation creates a feeling of revenge in them.  Whenever you are in this situation, you must accept it as a challenge instead of getting frustrated and taking revenge.  You should make an innovative idea and work  very hard out to prove your capability. Your determination and confidence will help you to flush out this problem. However sometimes it is very common that people laugh at others only for fun.

Few years ago I and my friend got a chance to exhibit our paintings at Lalit Kala Academy in New Delhi. That time although I was having only 5-6 paintings and my friend had only 7-8 but we were very enthusiastic to exhibit them. We were embarrassed to see that the very next room was flourished with a number of beautiful Madhubani paintings. In other rooms enormous mesmerizing paintings were also exhibited by the artists. Hence we were very disappointed to see our deserted room with few paintings. As soon as visiting hours started, no one entered in our room. At last at the end of the day few people came and they wrote very disappointing words in feedback. We felt shameful but somehow we gathered ourselves and tried to do much better for the next day.

The next day also all rooms were looking crowded except our room. After a long time one visitor came and said to us in a very critic manner that your works are good but you both need to strive to be a good artist. Therefore we became depressed but planned to make a creative idea to make our exhibition successful. We started making few greeting cards as our room could look attractive. To attract the visitors towards our room we displayed all the greeting cards near the entrance of the room. Visitors were attracted towards the cards and they appreciated our work. In a few moments all cards were sold out. Now our happiness was in seventh happiness because after being so humiliated we made ourselves successful.

Thus we all are humiliated and feel neglected many times in the journey of our life but our determination to do something can throw it out from our life.

By:Shweta Jain

HAPPINESS IN PAIN

 

 

 

Girls play three roles in their life, a daughter, a wife and a mother. In earlier times when they were born, people felt regretted at their birth and they and their mother were symbolized as an ominous. They were not educated and even after getting married they used to spend their life around their household activities. They were also tortured for not having as much dowry as they were expected

Now time has been changed. Girls are being educated and they are more successful than boys in each and every field. Since the time of birth they are pampered. They are chirped like birds and spread their fragrance in the home. Parents start dreaming for their future. Although in some families still girls are symbolized as curse and are biased. When they take the first step of their life, people try to ruin their life by sexually assaulting them. At their beginning stage some girls are succumbed with this pain.

Moreover when they take step into their second stage of their life as a wife, parents give a farewell to their daughters with happiness and lots of blessings. But their parent’s heart is full of gloom and their life is cursed, when they are being abused due to getting fewer dowries. In some cases they are killed by their in-laws. At the beginning stage they face many difficulties to adjust themselves with a new family. In some families people have many expectations with them. If they are fail to fulfil, they are neglected.

In addition to when their life takes a new turn as a mother, they feel happy. They pass their nine months with many physical changes and pain but they accept all changes with happiness. They anxiously wait to have a first touch of their child. After completing nine months of their pregnancy when they deliver a baby, their life takes a drastic change. They up bring their child with lots of love and affection. However they get in big trouble, when their children neglect them and leave them in an orphanage. They spend their entire life with lots of sacrifices.

IF YOU CAN MAKE A GIRL LAUGH , YOU MAKE HER DO ANYTHING.

By: Shweta Jain

IMMATURITY IN RELATIONSHIP

When you go through your life, you meet a variety of people and want to make relation with them. They may be your friend, your colleagues, your neighbours or family members. We are successful to maintain healthy relationship  with only some people because of their good behaviour and kindness. However some people are selfish and use their relatives  only for their advantage. Sometimes in spite of having blood relation, we are failing to maintain them for a long life because of having  more expectations with each other and try to run away from their responsibilities. When they are failing to fulfil, it occurs differences in their relations and  it hurts very much. Nowadays people like to spend more time with friends and colleagues than family members because they feel more comfortable than family members.

Moreover if you want to have a healthy relation with family members, you should be open-hearted and try to ignore small mistakes. It  may create bitterness in your relation. This is my personal experience how a silly mistake can spoil your relationship.

I and my aunty who was just like a mother for me, were very close to each other. I usually  went to meet with her and always  used to give gifts to her. Once when I went to meet with her, I did not get anything from her,even forgot to get a box of sweets. That day She behaved with me in a very awkward way but I could not understand the reason. I tried to ask but she did not give me any response. After that she tried to ignore me many times but I failed to know the reason every time. Once I was shocked when she did not invite me in her daughter’s marriage. I said to  her daughter ” Tell me the reason.” She reluctantly told me the stupid reason. I was surprized  and thought that peoples are fake and do not have value of their relationship. Since that day our relation had been spoiled because of such a silly reason.

Relations should not be bound with anything except love, trust and friendship.

RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE A PIECE OF GLASS WHEN IT BREAKS IT CAN NOT JOIN  AGAIN.

By: Shweta Jain