PARENTS ONLY BRING HAPPINESS

A child works like a glue between both parents but few parents are separated because of misunderstanding anf few lose their life in mid of  life and child has to lead its life with one parent.

Moreover parents forget that on the birth of their child they celebrate their happiness and make many promises with their child to give him/her a happy, healthy and wealthy life. The parents become the first and good teacher for their child, today their decision is making their’s child life insecure.Although they know but don’t want to compromise.

This is not a question that the parent can’t give the child a happy life, he/she can but in spite of fulfilling his/her all wishes, is the child happy? No,because they can give only momentary happiness because parent can’t fill blank of other parent.

As well as the child it is very difficult for the parent also because he/she can’t give more time to his/her child because he/she has to go out for working that ‘why can’t give more attention on his/her all activities and the child has to depend on his/her grandparents if they are alive. Many parent send the child in a hostel not because of giving quality time but sometimes it gives adverse result.

Both parents can give their child happy and smooth life because if a mother can give more affection and love as well a father make them strong and learn them to face each and every problem easily.

The parents who take the decision of separation, should think about their child ‘future and remind all the promises which you have done with your child. I think that it may be help you to change your decision.

By: Shweta Jain

SHADOW GIVES SOOTHING EFFECT

Although since children’s birth time to their adulthood, parents take care of them. Their toddler activities from feeding to dropping at school make them feel comfortable because parents up bring them according to their wishes. As soon as children take step into a new age as a teenager, it becomes difficult to tackle them because they need more freedom. At this sophisticate age parents can convince them only in a friendly manner because their uncompromising   behaviour can create gap between them. Hence they are influenced by others. Parents should discuss daily schedule with their children and update themselves by reading magazine, surfing on internet according to time. Hence they can make changes in their children accordingly.

Moreover before reaching into their pubertal age, parents must let them know the physical changes whatever they will get. Between the age of 8^th to 12^th years children have a bunch of physical changes and create confusion in their mind. Although at each and every stage of their life children give importance to their looks, but at this age often adolescents give more attention on their appearance and want to wear funky outfits. Parents should purchase few decent dresses and focus on their looks that can make them smart and good looking. Teenagers suffer with acne problem that make them look ugly. Thus they feel embarrass to face their peers and their family members. At this stage parents should make them comfortable by giving them few beauty treatments. Furthermore at this delicate age they need some privacy. Though parents should not interrupt them but should focus on their activities and have trust in them. In some cases at very early age pubertal signs can be seen in children that make them feel conscious. At this young age parents especially mothers must clear their doubts by giving them proper explanation and make them aware. In addition to, much confusion is created in their mind to see the physical changes in their siblings and they are anxious to know. At this time parents can help them to get rid of their confusion by discussing with them regarding the difference between the male and female changes.

Due to being either working parents or spending time with their social circle, parents do not look after their children properly. Thus whether they leave their children alone at home or appoint a nanny for their upbringing. Sometimes at this situation children go into depression and try to harm themselves. Give children a friendly atmosphere at home and prevent them from going astray.

By: Shweta Jain

 

HAPPINESS IN PAIN

 

 

 

Girls play three roles in their life, a daughter, a wife and a mother. In earlier times when they were born, people felt regretted at their birth and they and their mother were symbolized as an ominous. They were not educated and even after getting married they used to spend their life around their household activities. They were also tortured for not having as much dowry as they were expected

Now time has been changed. Girls are being educated and they are more successful than boys in each and every field. Since the time of birth they are pampered. They are chirped like birds and spread their fragrance in the home. Parents start dreaming for their future. Although in some families still girls are symbolized as curse and are biased. When they take the first step of their life, people try to ruin their life by sexually assaulting them. At their beginning stage some girls are succumbed with this pain.

Moreover when they take step into their second stage of their life as a wife, parents give a farewell to their daughters with happiness and lots of blessings. But their parent’s heart is full of gloom and their life is cursed, when they are being abused due to getting fewer dowries. In some cases they are killed by their in-laws. At the beginning stage they face many difficulties to adjust themselves with a new family. In some families people have many expectations with them. If they are fail to fulfil, they are neglected.

In addition to when their life takes a new turn as a mother, they feel happy. They pass their nine months with many physical changes and pain but they accept all changes with happiness. They anxiously wait to have a first touch of their child. After completing nine months of their pregnancy when they deliver a baby, their life takes a drastic change. They up bring their child with lots of love and affection. However they get in big trouble, when their children neglect them and leave them in an orphanage. They spend their entire life with lots of sacrifices.

IF YOU CAN MAKE A GIRL LAUGH , YOU MAKE HER DO ANYTHING.

By: Shweta Jain