COMMON PROBLEM

Inferiority is not being to compete a given activity however it’s a feeling that arise in people mind and create anxiety or can be said that it’s a conflict between mind and our heart.

Few symptoms are seen in people who feel inferior…….

People have very hypocritical behaviour as angry, cranky and very mischievous especially these symptoms are seen in small kids. In elders they r found out  very talkative and tried to expose their qualities.

It’s a very common sign of those people that they blame others for their failure. For example if a kid gets less marks in exam, definitely will blame to teacher or the environment that he/she had in examination hall. It indicates that they r defident and anyhow to finish the topic. Moreover the most major aspect is when parents support them.

They try to away from society because they do not want hear anything  positive about others and don’t want to learn any good lesson. Moreover they consider themselves over smart and believer no one is as intelligent as they are hence they avoid to speak publicly because they know that anything will create an embarrassing demonstration of their in eptitude.

People who have inferiority complex like to win anything but avoid the situation because of being defident.

People can g et over from this situation by using few tips……

Trust in you and celebrate even ur small achievement. It will help to build their confidence even parents or elders should support them and encourage them to go ahead.

They should divert their mind towards any hobby whatever they like to do very much as listening music, drawing e.t.c. It will bring a drastic change in their behavior.

This is a very common problem but if at right time we don’t get over this situation, spoil our life.

By : Shweta jain

 

 

 

 

 

FOCUS

• It is often seen that people curse themselves b’coz of having struggling life and think that if we would have had life others, we could have enjoyed our life. However it is upto them that how they take their life and how they face obstacles of their life? Hence if they take those hurdles like a challenge or lesson, they can become a cause of their success.

Among them few people find the solution to get out from the solution and few only complain………..

The people who find solution and ready to face each and every hurdle and choose the most difficult way to acquire success, they are successful b’coz hard word only can bring good and long lasting result.

The people who find  short cut ways to gain success that ways can give only temporary smile on their face that may stumble by a slight gust of weed and roam like a tumbleweed.

Hence don’t feel jealous from others life but focus on your life and try to smile on each and every situation b’coz your mental peace and calmness can help you to take right decision.

By: Shweta Jain

SMALL ACTIVITY BIG LESSON

When a child starts learning writing he/she feels uncomfortable even hold a pencil. He/she only scribble and crumble the paper and throw it. Sometimes it’s fun to see them. Many children tear paper when they feel uneasy to write or even hold pencil, sometimes these activity show their angriness, fear and jealousy. It is often seen that whenever they are not success to express their feeling verbally they try to express through their writing patterns or colouring patterns.

Often kids copy to elder ones and try to do the same. Once I saw a child was sitting with crayons, pencils, eraser and some papers. The child was sketching lines on the papers and erasing the lines again and again. After a long time I saw he piled up of crumbled papers only one paper was kept properly with a beautiful picture. Hence I was totally baffled to see and wanted to know the reason so started opening all the crumbled papers one by one and found some lighter and some darker lines on the papers. Having seen it although I was totally perplexed but I thought and came to know that ………….

The mistakes are made by us, are like lighter and darker lines of pencil and we all assume like a pencil because all the lines are sketched by us whether they are light or dark. In the beginning of our life like kids we make small mistakes and used to be succeeded to erase them and then try to make bigger ones when we are failing to correct properly then feel repentance because if mistakes are made again and again, they always leave their impression on our character and become the cause of stumbling and nemesis but if we learn from them then be a good example for society.

From the small game of pencil I knew that this is the truth of our life that our small mistake can be big inspiration for us if it is taken as a lesson.

Make mistakes but learn from them because your mistakes only can make changes in your life and lead the life like a small kid because they usually are very determined and always try to correct even their small mistakes themselves.

Sometimes their small activity becomes a big lesson for us

By:Shweta Jain

 

ILLUSION

One day when I peeped out from my window and saw that many people with a plate that was covered with a colourful cloth, were going towards a banyan tree, its branches were spreading over a wall of building. Hence I was perplexed to see the scene and thought that the tree must have had all virtues that’s why it is being worshipped.

Moreover at noon time I saw the area was crowded because they must have taken cooling effect under it. Few people were plucking its leaves and branches that must have been used for medical treatment. Thus I thought that a tree is more useful then I should also go to worship it .Therefore the very next day I also went to the tree with a plate in my hand to worship the tree. As soon as I reached near by the tree, I saw that many people were worshiping and I also tried to emulate that was being done. After that I sat for few hours under the tree and it was nice to have cooling effect under it then suddenly and I was shocked to have a glance of its roots and wide cracks on the wall. I thought that due to its roots must have gone into depth of building that’s why the wall is looking cracked.

Furthermore I came back to home with depressing mood and thought in spite of having all the virtues its roots can be dangerous because due to its roots the wall might be fall down.

Hence I thought that a person also has some good qualities as well as some bad qualities then why don’t we comfortable with his/her bad habits and qualities and despite of having all good why we give up a person because of his/her bad habits and qualities.

I came to know nothing is in the world that has all good qualities in it and it’s depending on our illusion how we handle and accept a thing or person.

If we don’t focus its bad quality and find the good qualities they have then it can’t be harmful us.

I came to know that we can lead a happy life to change our illusion.

By: Shweta Jain

JIGSAW PUZZLE

One day I was playing jigsaw puzzle with my son and in spite of being easier,  I took an hour to complete the puzzle however he took only fifteen minutes to make it. Hence I felt so embarrassed and thought how hastily he finished at a very early age !

I therefore reminded my childhood days, and started laughing to remember about  those days how we used to have fun doing such stupid activities as we used to laugh loudly, cry and fight with each other for silly things. Sometimes those became a cause of embarrassment; however I neglected it and used to have fun. I never forget to celebrate even silly events. Moreover I easily could have crossed a long and tough path happily and never felt hesitate to climb on high walls.

However we grow up, our nuisance activities are engraved in us because we are besieged with lots of responsibilities and lots of tensions take place in our life. In order to our life are scattered like jigsaw puzzle but never success to connect them in spite of lying few pieces in front of us because we forget to have fun. Although  everybody has a child in it but never appeared because it is covered with many layers.

Moreover we all are hunted of such a stupid sickness that what will others think about us? Before doing anything, we always think that how they will react on our activity even for wearing dresses, for eating and for such small things. Furthermore among all those stupidity our childhood is killed and gradually we forget reality of our life and it is become a part of our life.

After travelled our life journey when we take a step in our old age, we felt gloomy to see all the scatter pieces of puzzle those could not connect due to responsibilities. At that moment we want to join them but because of our old age we do not able to pick them up.

We come to know that we lived our life in our childhood happily in order to in other phase of the life we only picked the pieces but could not join them.

Hence pamper yourself and live your life happily and never kill your childish behaviour because in it our entire life is hidden. Moreover to whom we find in our entire life and search the way to achieve something in our life that is done easily in our childhood.

By: Shweta Jain

 

WARMNESS OF LOVE

The day I remember when my friend ‘four years son was diagnosed with leukaemia that was on last stage, Thus she was anguished and stunned to hear this news. In order to her son’s childhood was repressed before blooming. However somehow she gathered herself ,prayed to God for his speedy recovery and admitted him in a hospital. At that situation she needed support, affection to cope with that situation. However as soon as people and her family members came to know the news; they started criticizing and questioning on her upbringing instead of giving support her.

Moreover her son was admitted till one month and one day when  I visited the hospital and saw she was dying hundred times within a day to see his terrible condition. Hence she looked like a cactus with lots of thrones that were pirecing her motherhood.Even all the patients  were there, looking as they needed the warmness of love to survive.

When he got discharged from the hospital after a month, his appearance was looking like a moon, covering with the clouds and had been disappeared his brightness. He hence had become feeble and appearing skinny due to side effects of chemotherapy.

However he was glad to come back at home and needed a playful environment to get out from this condition. On the other hand he was disheartened to get the negligence attitude by his near and dear ones. In order to people made him and his parents feel wretch and helpless but inspite of being at a very young age he faced the entire problem with courage.

Furthermore cancer has become a cause of big problem even some kids are born with this problem and at the very early age their innocence and smile are supressed. Whenever a person is diagnosed with cancer, his/her life stops and they start back counting of their life. Despite of being under treatment, they succumb with this terrible pain.

In order to a child or elder one suffers with this terrible pain, we can give their life back by giving them love, affection and support. Thus we change their environment and make them busy with audio visual laughing programme and in any creative work; those will help them to be cured. Thus happiness and love give them strength and to tolerate the horrible pain and their deserted life may become fertile.

Hence love and happiness is the key to open all the locks those help us to overcome all the walls. Here love is not meant by romance but love means to pamper, to make them feel important and to make them feel happy as they can forget their entire pain and lead the life happily.

By :Shweta Jain

 

 

 

HOPE GIVES LIFE

It was a very cold morning. As soon as I opened my window, it seemed all the things, were looking disappointed as their liveliness had been vanished among the clouds. Even all the trees and shrubs appeared faded and looked colourless because they were shivering and dying from cold. Hence they were waiting desperately for a ray of hope that could fill colours in their life and enlighten their life path. After a long time although a gust of wind came and carried away all the clouds along with it but could not give them life. It removed the darkness but carried away the liveliness along with it. Therefore in a few minutes all the trees turned into sorrow because their leaves had fallen down and were spread everywhere. They wanted to get their beauty back but were felt helpless. Now the tree trunks were feeling lonely and looking depressed because everything had been spoiled in a moment. The water dews, falling on the leaves and trunks were appearing like their tears because they had been departed from each other. Although they were surrounded with sorrow but did not lose their courage and they were trying to console each other.

After a long time as soon as the sun rose up with its sparkling rays, they all got happy to see a ray of light that could illuminate their life and could help them to regenerate. It appeared that the rays were giving them a hug and guiding them to remove the darkness from their lives. The tree trunks that were desperately waiting to have a new life, were filled with hope and were trying to fill colours in their life. The scene was looking charming and giving me soothing effect because they all had got a new life.

Like nature people’s lives are also surrounded with sorrow which spoils their life but a ray of light and hope can remove dense darkness and enlighten their life. Thus if you are strong to face each and every problem, you can get your liveliness back and brighten your life.

By: Shweta Jain

AN IDEA ENLIGHTENS YOUR LIFE

Generally people become disheartened when they feel humiliated and try to drag themselves into darkness. It may be either because of their appearance, their financial status or from any other reason. Often adolescents feel shy with their ugly physical appearance and feel embarrassed to face people. This situation make them non confident and affects their growth path. Sometimes societies try to make the people feel humiliated in the public by laughing on them and this situation creates a feeling of revenge in them.  Whenever you are in this situation, you must accept it as a challenge instead of getting frustrated and taking revenge.  You should make an innovative idea and work  very hard out to prove your capability. Your determination and confidence will help you to flush out this problem. However sometimes it is very common that people laugh at others only for fun.

Few years ago I and my friend got a chance to exhibit our paintings at Lalit Kala Academy in New Delhi. That time although I was having only 5-6 paintings and my friend had only 7-8 but we were very enthusiastic to exhibit them. We were embarrassed to see that the very next room was flourished with a number of beautiful Madhubani paintings. In other rooms enormous mesmerizing paintings were also exhibited by the artists. Hence we were very disappointed to see our deserted room with few paintings. As soon as visiting hours started, no one entered in our room. At last at the end of the day few people came and they wrote very disappointing words in feedback. We felt shameful but somehow we gathered ourselves and tried to do much better for the next day.

The next day also all rooms were looking crowded except our room. After a long time one visitor came and said to us in a very critic manner that your works are good but you both need to strive to be a good artist. Therefore we became depressed but planned to make a creative idea to make our exhibition successful. We started making few greeting cards as our room could look attractive. To attract the visitors towards our room we displayed all the greeting cards near the entrance of the room. Visitors were attracted towards the cards and they appreciated our work. In a few moments all cards were sold out. Now our happiness was in seventh happiness because after being so humiliated we made ourselves successful.

Thus we all are humiliated and feel neglected many times in the journey of our life but our determination to do something can throw it out from our life.

By:Shweta Jain

HAPPINESS IN PAIN

 

 

 

Girls play three roles in their life, a daughter, a wife and a mother. In earlier times when they were born, people felt regretted at their birth and they and their mother were symbolized as an ominous. They were not educated and even after getting married they used to spend their life around their household activities. They were also tortured for not having as much dowry as they were expected

Now time has been changed. Girls are being educated and they are more successful than boys in each and every field. Since the time of birth they are pampered. They are chirped like birds and spread their fragrance in the home. Parents start dreaming for their future. Although in some families still girls are symbolized as curse and are biased. When they take the first step of their life, people try to ruin their life by sexually assaulting them. At their beginning stage some girls are succumbed with this pain.

Moreover when they take step into their second stage of their life as a wife, parents give a farewell to their daughters with happiness and lots of blessings. But their parent’s heart is full of gloom and their life is cursed, when they are being abused due to getting fewer dowries. In some cases they are killed by their in-laws. At the beginning stage they face many difficulties to adjust themselves with a new family. In some families people have many expectations with them. If they are fail to fulfil, they are neglected.

In addition to when their life takes a new turn as a mother, they feel happy. They pass their nine months with many physical changes and pain but they accept all changes with happiness. They anxiously wait to have a first touch of their child. After completing nine months of their pregnancy when they deliver a baby, their life takes a drastic change. They up bring their child with lots of love and affection. However they get in big trouble, when their children neglect them and leave them in an orphanage. They spend their entire life with lots of sacrifices.

IF YOU CAN MAKE A GIRL LAUGH , YOU MAKE HER DO ANYTHING.

By: Shweta Jain

TIME MANAGEMAENT MAKES YOU SUCCESSFUL

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Time is precious because anything can be manufactured but if time passes, it cannot be regained.You should ask those people who have lost many things due to paucity of time. A student gets a failing result; a dying person needs only few moments to spend with his/her near and dear ones; a mother who delivers a premature baby. You should respect it; it can only make your life path easier. Whether you are a successful doctor, engineer or industrialist but you can only get 24 hours in a day not more than that. Proper time management makes you either successful or failure. People are successful not only due to their money power but also due to their time management. Those people who spend their time leisurely or adjourn their important moments, often go in trouble or sometimes go in danger of poverty. You should plan your daily schedule according to your priority of work. Sometimes despite of planning your work according to time, you fail to execute because suddenly you get any problem. You should get time for your family members from your daily schedule because you can  strengthen your relation by spending  quality time with them. Whenever you are spending time with anyone, you are giving them a part of your life.

Sometimes people besiege with lots of health problems because they often ignore them at a very initial stage. They are diagnosed when their body is captured by them. Moreover it is very common among everyone that we all ignore our important moments. I have also faced many problems due to lack of time;

After publishing my last blog, the very next day I planned to write my next blog but postponed it for a day and thought tomorrow I would write two but failed. The very next day I got sick with stomach infection and fever and could not write. I took two days to recover and then felt regret. This is a small incident that I faced recently.

Often we lose small incident because of no proper time management and feel regret.

By: Shweta Jain