COMMON PROBLEM

Inferiority is not being to compete a given activity however it’s a feeling that arise in people mind and create anxiety or can be said that it’s a conflict between mind and our heart.

Few symptoms are seen in people who feel inferior…….

People have very hypocritical behaviour as angry, cranky and very mischievous especially these symptoms are seen in small kids. In elders they r found out  very talkative and tried to expose their qualities.

It’s a very common sign of those people that they blame others for their failure. For example if a kid gets less marks in exam, definitely will blame to teacher or the environment that he/she had in examination hall. It indicates that they r defident and anyhow to finish the topic. Moreover the most major aspect is when parents support them.

They try to away from society because they do not want hear anything  positive about others and don’t want to learn any good lesson. Moreover they consider themselves over smart and believer no one is as intelligent as they are hence they avoid to speak publicly because they know that anything will create an embarrassing demonstration of their in eptitude.

People who have inferiority complex like to win anything but avoid the situation because of being defident.

People can g et over from this situation by using few tips……

Trust in you and celebrate even ur small achievement. It will help to build their confidence even parents or elders should support them and encourage them to go ahead.

They should divert their mind towards any hobby whatever they like to do very much as listening music, drawing e.t.c. It will bring a drastic change in their behavior.

This is a very common problem but if at right time we don’t get over this situation, spoil our life.

By : Shweta jain

 

 

 

 

 

DIGNITY OF LABOUR

It is very common and often are seen,to be disrespected and discriminated of manual labourer. However if we guess a day without any of them how much problems have to be faced. Even our daily sechdule can be derailed without them.

Moreover those people consider  that intellectual labourer are important for the society, should be realized to them  that If an intellectual labourer helps us to do our daily routine faster by using latest technologies like that a manual labourer is equally important that always help us for just to finish our daily chores.

In addition to every job has its own dignity and  has equally rights to be respected. Even any of labour  is dutifully done with honesty, deserves appreciation.

This is a seed that we should inculcate in our kids that will become a sapling, a plant and later on will become a tree. Otherwise inspite of being an independent citizen manual labourer will lead their life like a slave that would be injustice for them.

Join your hands and respect each and everyone.

BY:Shweta Jain

 

FAMILY

Family is like a giant tree. It can give us sweet fruits if its roots are strong and have  watered with love, affection, understanding, respect and faith however if it waters with hatred,ego,disrespect, it will give only throns and will stumble by a slight gust of wind and can never sow.

Water your family with love and faith as well as care of each and every branch because if a branch is weak and watering with hatred, it can move its roots.

We all need a happy and healthy family but what we all think, how can we make it healthy……..I think only few people try and rest of are busy in their world. Their eyes open when a gust of wind destroy their world and leave only few particle of dust for them.

This is not a time to be repented so give priority to your family and make it healthy

Shweta Jain

 

 

 

CRACK IN RELATION

One day in the evening I was sitting in my room with crossed legs and reading a book. While reading as soon as I took a sip of tea and glanced on the main wall of the room, I mesmerized to see the bright colours of the wall paper. Hence I felt glad because the wall paper was enhancing my room’ beauty. I therefore stopped reading and started gazing the wall.

After sometimes having seen a colony of ants climbing on the wall, I was alarmed. Hence promptly I rushed to the wall and removed all the ants.  Again I sat on my chair, took the book and  started reading but after sometimes again I looked on the wall, I perplexed to see climbing numerous on the wall. In a few moments they had been gathered at the corner of the wall that was diminishing the brightness of the wall.

I therefore determined to know the reason that’why I sat patiently in front of the wall with a cup of tea and started looking the ants. Hence I was bewildered to see the activity of the ants. How were they collecting  at the corner of the wall? I baffled because  with the blink of my eyes all were vanished. However when I saw few ants to go near a line then I stood up and found a crack. Seeing the crack on the wall although I felt gloomy but I found the reason and thought that all the ants must have gone in it.

The very next day I called a plumber to fill the crack; he filled the crack properly and made the crack smooth. However after few days again it was being appeared, the plumber again tried to fill it but could not give back its original smoothness and shape because ants had taken place and spoiling the beauty of the wall. After few days i saw many holes on the wall anf from them others small insects were also going in it.

I therefore wondered  because in our real life same thing happens and  a minor crack spoils  the root of any relation and give chance others to take place in it.

Moreover do not let anyone to come between you because they create misunderstanding for you and try to fill the crack with cleverness only for them. However it becomes wider for you. Hence it can never be filled even with your love and trust.

By: Shweta Jain

 

BETRAYAL OF WIND

After few years I realized that sometimes we do not free to share our secrets even with our close friends and relatives and always combat between our ego and jealousy. Hence we are failing to share our feelings.

Few years ago my best friend passed away and she left her each and everything behind her. I could not understand which gust of wind brought her away and I was standing like a statue.

Although I wanted to have a long chat and shared a lot of secrets with her but everything became seized along with her death and still I feel regret and hid all the feelings in my heart.

Whenever I sit with my cross legs, my eyes become wet to miss her fun-loving and cheerful nature and try to find out that gust of wind that had been brought her away.

Moreover  I still see to blow winds everywhere profusely, I think one day they will bring her back that’ why i started pleading them to bring her back. Thus they accepted my request and said to be her back earlier.

One day when I got up in the morning, I saw to shake everything in my home and thought that all the things are alarming me to come back her. However in a few moments everything had been stopped and in order to I became disheartened.

Furthermore one day i saw that the sky was covered with dust, having seen that scene I thought all the gust of wind were simultaneously went to sky and trying to find her.They were blowing at the top of their speed, the entire sky was looking hazy an d trying to help them. Hence the doors of my home were being knocked by them. Thus I opened the main gate and found few particles of dust that were appearing foot prints. I therefore thought that she has come and started to search in the home but in a few moments everything had been washed out.

It appeared that she was playing hide and seek with me because many times wind came and left few particles at my home. At the indication on her arrival my heart was full of emotions and I used to think to share each and everything whatever i hid in my heart.

Although I anxiously waited for her but she could not come back and they still interminably are blowing. I still think that they betrayed me and along with their betrayal I became disappointed and my all feelings were engraved in my heart.

By: Shweta Jain

ART THERAPY

Art therapy is a psychotherapeutic technique of non-verbal artistic expression that helps in particular healing of various psychological issues. It also makes people stronger in expressing their feelings and exploring different aspects of their personalities.

The therapy originated in mid-20^th century when doctors noticed that people’s mental stress could be reduced with form of any art techniques which could be applied to all ages, caste, creed or sex without having any specialized skills of art. In normal art artists improve only art skills but art therapists emphasize the ability to recognize the non-verbal symbols and metaphors represented in art works and underlying their meaning and help the people to release their stress

It works on the different psychological issues like:

PEOPLE ARE SUFFERING WITH MENTAL STRESS AND BRAIN INJURY.

CHILDREN ARE SUFFERING WITH MENTAL DISORDERS AND LEARNING DISABILITIES.

CHILDREN ARE HAUNTED WITH EVILS, JEALOUSY, FEAR, ANGER, DOMESTIC ABUSE, AND SEXUAL ABUSE.

They do not feel comfortable to express themselves in school as well as at home. Thus their mind can be attracted to various activities of art according to their choice that help to treat them easily and wash away their problems.

ADOLSCENTS ARE ALSO SUFFERING WITH INTERNAL PAIN OF DEPRESSION

Some problems are engendered by the family members and some  may  have  it with their own physical appearance or the society .Their physical appearance can be treated by physicians but for mental issues if they are treated by psychologists, they may feel scared with their verbal cross examination but art therapists treat them with creative techniques and help to enhance their self-esteem and confidence.

Going through this therapy all psychological matters may be dissolved but only trust in it is required.

 By: Shweta Jain