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BLOOM YOURSELF

It is very common that we meet many people in our life journey as a friend, relative and colleagues thus every person plays an important role in our life.

I visited many places and met many people and found that some people don’t want to mingle with others and they mesmerize with their luxurious life.

Few days back i met with a girl in a wedding party and when everybody was enjoying,she was sitting alone.Thus i went to her to talk with her and said,” Hi!

She said to me very bluntly,” Do you want any thing from me”?

I said,”No.”

She said to me,”Why did you come here?”

I told her that since we gathered here for wedding she  were never be seen to mingle up with people.

She laughed loudly at me and said,”Who told me that she had always been seen alone.

She showed me her very expensive gadgets and said,”these are my friends and do you know that how many friends in my friend list on facebook and what’s app and she always engross with them.

I said,”Ok but do you meet them personally and do you even share few moments of happiness and sorrow with them?She said to me,” Yes,i always chat with them whenever i feel sad or happy.

I said,”i am agree with you but whenever we are happy we need a person to hug and whenever we are sad we need a shoulder to sympathize us and can you hug if it is needed for you.

She looked in anvery awkward manner and said ,” These all people who are here, are strangers for me and are not of my type.

I said,”What is your type”?  The girl who never value the people who are surround her and are very arrogant.

She shouted at me and said,”what do you mean? I said in a very polite manner that i also have thousands of friends in my friend list on facebook and what’app and they are also important for me but i always enjoy with those people with whom i am surrounded because we can chat any time with our facebook and what’app friends. I think so that we are here to enjoy the wedding.

very often people are seen engrossing with their gadgets in a function to make themselves stylish but as per my opinion in stead of looking stylish they look fool and miss happy moments.

Give importance to each and every person and see how your life bloom!

Even a flower or an animal always be happy with whom they are surrounded.

By: Shweta Jain

PARENTS ONLY BRING HAPPINESS

A child works like a glue between both parents but few parents are separated because of misunderstanding anf few lose their life in mid of  life and child has to lead its life with one parent.

Moreover parents forget that on the birth of their child they celebrate their happiness and make many promises with their child to give him/her a happy, healthy and wealthy life. The parents become the first and good teacher for their child, today their decision is making their’s child life insecure.Although they know but don’t want to compromise.

This is not a question that the parent can’t give the child a happy life, he/she can but in spite of fulfilling his/her all wishes, is the child happy? No,because they can give only momentary happiness because parent can’t fill blank of other parent.

As well as the child it is very difficult for the parent also because he/she can’t give more time to his/her child because he/she has to go out for working that ‘why can’t give more attention on his/her all activities and the child has to depend on his/her grandparents if they are alive. Many parent send the child in a hostel not because of giving quality time but sometimes it gives adverse result.

Both parents can give their child happy and smooth life because if a mother can give more affection and love as well a father make them strong and learn them to face each and every problem easily.

The parents who take the decision of separation, should think about their child ‘future and remind all the promises which you have done with your child. I think that it may be help you to change your decision.

By: Shweta Jain

SOLUTION

Often it is seen that if we are fail, we make excuses or blame others for our failure and never try to think the solution that ‘why again and again we fail to obtain anything.

If really we want to get success, we have to take all the responsibility of our failure, have to check out the mistake is made and work out to solve it.

It’s a very simple example …………..whenever we sharp a pencil and if it doesn’t sharp properly then quality of pencil or sharpener is blamed and is taken other pencil or sharpener and again same problem is faced because we have not noticed our mistake yet.

Furthermore many difficulties are faced in our life, sometimes they seem tough or we make them tougher…….just stop and think.

I think that they are made tougher because again and again situations are tried to be changed that are impossible in many cases.

Simple example …………..If we live in a very small house with joint family and a kid of that family doesn’t score good marks and blame to his/her family and small house. Just think is his/ her family or house is responsible. No, because since childhood he/she was living in same house with his/ her family…….Reason didn’t work according to that.

It’s always seen that failure always try to change the situation instead of changing ourselves that ‘why they are failing to achieve their wish.

We have to choose our own way to go ahead.

Don’t waste our time to make excuses, make changes in ourselves and see the difference in your life because a silly change can bring a drastic change in your life.

By: Shweta Jain

SMILE

Sometimes it happens, when life takes turn and everything looks dark and feels very depressed. Nowadays I’m also facing the situation. One day I was very depressed and took my car and left for a long drive. Hence I stopped my car and ambled along the road and after some times i sat on a stone and started looking towards sky.

It seemed that it’s changing its colours again and again but no view was helping me to get rid of my depression thus I got up and reached in a garden and sat under a tree.

Although weather was very nice, cold winds were blowing and leaves that was touching against my cheeks, were irritated me.

I therefore moved to car, as soon as I reached at the main gate of the garden, I saw a couple entering into the garden. I had a glimpse and wondered to see because the girl, who entered with blooming smile. The smile was bloomed pink rose as roses always give soothing effect. Although she was not beautiful and good looking but her smile was covering her shortcomings and her eyes were also sparkling and blooming.

Hence I stopped and started gazing her. It seemed that I was numb and was forgot that why I was depressed. I smiled and felt happy.

Having seen the smile, it seemed everything was ceased for a moment and was turned into happy mood.

The leaves that were irritating me, now giving cooling effect even sky was also looking bright and spreading the colour of happiness, it seemed that they were taking away my all tensions and are ready to dance with me.

I took my car and came back to home. After reaching I was feeling so energetic and engrossed in my household chores.

The night I was thinking that a smile, a positive face always help us to get rid of depression.

By: Shweta jain

 

SMALL ACTIVITY BIG LESSON

When a child starts learning writing he/she feels uncomfortable even hold a pencil. He/she only scribble and crumble the paper and throw it. Sometimes it’s fun to see them. Many children tear paper when they feel uneasy to write or even hold pencil, sometimes these activity show their angriness, fear and jealousy. It is often seen that whenever they are not success to express their feeling verbally they try to express through their writing patterns or colouring patterns.

Often kids copy to elder ones and try to do the same. Once I saw a child was sitting with crayons, pencils, eraser and some papers. The child was sketching lines on the papers and erasing the lines again and again. After a long time I saw he piled up of crumbled papers only one paper was kept properly with a beautiful picture. Hence I was totally baffled to see and wanted to know the reason so started opening all the crumbled papers one by one and found some lighter and some darker lines on the papers. Having seen it although I was totally perplexed but I thought and came to know that ………….

The mistakes are made by us, are like lighter and darker lines of pencil and we all assume like a pencil because all the lines are sketched by us whether they are light or dark. In the beginning of our life like kids we make small mistakes and used to be succeeded to erase them and then try to make bigger ones when we are failing to correct properly then feel repentance because if mistakes are made again and again, they always leave their impression on our character and become the cause of stumbling and nemesis but if we learn from them then be a good example for society.

From the small game of pencil I knew that this is the truth of our life that our small mistake can be big inspiration for us if it is taken as a lesson.

Make mistakes but learn from them because your mistakes only can make changes in your life and lead the life like a small kid because they usually are very determined and always try to correct even their small mistakes themselves.

Sometimes their small activity becomes a big lesson for us

By:Shweta Jain

 

ILLUSION

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One day when I peeped out from my window and saw that many people with a plate that was covered with a colourful cloth, were going towards a banyan tree, its branches were spreading over a wall of building. Hence I was perplexed to see the scene and thought that the tree must have had all virtues that’s why it is being worshipped.

Moreover at noon time I saw the area was crowded because they must have taken cooling effect under it. Few people were plucking its leaves and branches that must have been used for medical treatment. Thus I thought that a tree is more useful then I should also go to worship it .Therefore the very next day I also went to the tree with a plate in my hand to worship the tree. As soon as I reached near by the tree, I saw that many people were worshiping and I also tried to emulate that was being done. After that I sat for few hours under the tree and it was nice to have cooling effect under it then suddenly and I was shocked to have a glance of its roots and wide cracks on the wall. I thought that due to its roots must have gone into depth of building that’s why the wall is looking cracked.

Furthermore I came back to home with depressing mood and thought in spite of having all the virtues its roots can be dangerous because due to its roots the wall might be fall down.

Hence I thought that a person also has some good qualities as well as some bad qualities then why don’t we comfortable with his/her bad habits and qualities and despite of having all good why we give up a person because of his/her bad habits and qualities.

I came to know nothing is in the world that has all good qualities in it and it’s depending on our illusion how we handle and accept a thing or person.

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If we don’t focus its bad quality and find the good qualities they have then it can’t be harmful us.

I came to know that we can lead a happy life to change our illusion.

By: Shweta Jain

VOICE AGAINST RAPE

Very often it is seen that at every occasion, our inbox are flooded with messages and make us feel happy and special. Moreover it’s a good way to keep in touch with everyone even with whom we are not contacted for a long time.

Besides on this women ‘day I found my inbox flooded. Having read all the messages, I felt proud to be a woman but sometimes it shoots in my mind , the wishes and regards are received through messages, is given to woman.

In spite of knowing by everyone, women are pivotal of the world then why they are humiliated.

Seeing the increasing rate of rape cases in our society, it seems false getting messages for the regard of women because by whom we get meaningful and decent messages, by them we are often violated.

When a woman is haunted of rape, Not only she is being physically raped but mentally also she is being violated. Even when they raise their voice against it then many offensive questions are faced and are tried to repress their emotions. If their external appearance become the cause of it then why women are withsaree are not safe. Even small girls are repressed at a very initial stage of her life that becomes horrifying for them. Besides them their family members are also besieged with many question of society and their emotions are raped at each and every step. Even few cases are telecasted and publicized by media, are become a theme to make a movie by directors.

In addition to girls, boys are also assaulted. Sometimes our friends and relatives take advantage of our faith whatever we have in them.

If a woman is not regarded and not having assurance of her safety then why we celebrate women ‘day and daughter ‘day and why we send messages to each other

I think that it’s only a fashion to send messages, videos, chatting with each other  and we are addicted to.

If no action would be taken against it earlier, in every moment a woman, a girl will succumb.

By: Shweta jain

SMALL NUMBER, BIG RESULT

Having achieved grand success in any field we become over confident and ignore every things and events that make us repented.

Moreover due to lower digit, one number is also not valued whether it is 1 mark question in exam, 1 rupee coin or 1 drop of water however we forget that due to get less 1 number we can’t make 99 to 100. Hence our negligence towards small things and numbers become a cause of our failure or repentance.

The students who run around the clock in exams and often leave their question paper due to get 1 minute less and then they realize same as a dying person who needs 1 moment more to spend with his/her near and dear ones. Ask an interviewer who loses his /her job due to reaching 1 minute late.

Even 1 drop of water is considered precious for a thirsty person.

A rich man, despite of having Crore rupees in his bank account are useless if he doesn’t get 1 rupee coin on time. It is not important what we have, the most important is whatever we have on time whether they are person for help or money.

Although at each and every nook of life it warns us and shows its importance but is neglected by us

Many times 1number is not valued by me also but I came to know when my son lost a chess tournament due to get 1 number less and it made me regret. Earlier He had won many tournaments that ‘why we were over confident and didn’t give importance the small tournament and thought it would be easily win by him. The day when we reached and as soon as tournament was started, 4 rounds was won continuously by him and still 1 round was left to play I took it easy and said to him,” You will definitely win the tournament because 1 round is only left and I saw your name is at top three players list. The words make him loser because he didn’t focus on his game and lost the tournament.

The thought made me remorseful and couldn’t anything for him.

By:Shweta Jain

 

BE DETERMINED

In hordes of people, few people get success but few only struggle in their life despite of striving hard. The question always pesters us when we don’t achieve our aim. Hence we start turning towards other direction.

To be successful although we make many changes at our working place or at our home even many people do fasting also but don’t get maximum result. It becomes a cause of big disappointment and consider ourselves loser.

I also wanted to reveal this mystery so one day I visited an enormous and beautifully carved temple with many idols in it for fulfilling my wishes. As soon as I reached, I enthralled seeing its carving but when I proceeded towards a hall where all idols were established, I bewildered to see that every people are rushing towards idols instead of seeing the beauty of carved marbles that was enhancing its beauty.

Hence I stood in front of the idol and begged for fulfilling my wishes and heard a voice. Having heard the voice, I conjectured and looked around the hall and that all the marbles which was embedded in the wall, were asking the idol that we are more attractive than you then why people are attracting to you?

The idols guffawed at their words and said,” How silly question you asked”! The marbles giggled and again asked the reason. They stated that we overcome all the obstacles with courage and go ahead in my life.

The marble asked what is meant by you.

They said,” we were smitten many times giving perfect shape of each and every part.” The marbles said,” We are also smitten then the idols said,” we agree but you stumble many times in your life and change your path. However we overcome all the hurdles unless we don’t attain success.

The marbles agreed and said,” That ‘why you always sparkle and are regarded by the people.”

I came to know that our determination, courage and confidence are only needed to achieve anything in our life that is hidden in us. However we are failing to lighten up and slip with a slight jerk.

Thus we consider others of the reason of our failure and visit many fortune tellers. However besides having many problems, we ensnare of them. Hence fear and depression take place in us.

Our determination and courage can strengthen us and make our life easier.

By: Shweta Jain

 

WHATEVER IS SEEN, SOMETIMES IS NOT TRUTH

My heart is full of gloomy to see the pathetic condition of beggars. Sometimes few are forcefully throw into this profession and some adapt the way to survive. It’s very common to see beggars on red light; many times ladies are seen using  kids for begging by dressing them in a very poor condition.

One day when I left from my house, saw an old lady, sitting on the road side. Although she was looking in good condition but her eyes seem full of sorrow, many by passers were passing through but no one even stopped.  I thought that everybody might be considering her as a fraud.

After 4-5 days I saw her, sitting at the same place and was appearing bag of bones. Having seen her pitiful condition, I guessed that she must not have eaten even a single bite of bread. Hence i thought to give her a piece of bread but didn’t give and thought if she might be a fraud, will harm me.  The end of the day I saw many people surrounded her but after sometimes few people scattered but one of them was sitting with her. I also rushed to her and wanted to know the reason. Hence when he asked her the reason to sit here she couldn’t stop her emotions and started crying very badly.

She stated him in a shaky voice,” I’m waiting for my son.”

Thus the man got confused and said to her,” why are you waiting for your son”?

She told that her son had left her before one week and said to her, “To wait for me.” He’ll be here after few minutes. Since the day I’m waiting here.

The day when he left me, I had 300/-Rs and I have spent 300/-Rs dialing him and every time he is saying to wait for him.

Although now he doesn’t pick my phone but still I’m waiting for him.

Hearing the story of the old woman, my and the man ‘eyes became wet.

Hence we tried to convince her to go to an orphanage but she refused and repeating same words, “My son will come to pick up me”.

She uttered that she was not sitting here for money.

The man asked her she had something . she said, “I if I would have gone to have food, my son had to find me that ‘why i didn’t move”.

The man said,” I’m bringing food for you.”

She told him that no.

If I eat anything, I’ll sleep and my son will go back seeing me sleep.

she said,” I know my empty stomach and my eyes would not let me sleep and i can wait of my son’steps

However we were trying to tell the fact but she was not even ready to realize the fact that her son will not come back to pick her up.

Hence we didn’t come to know that what we should do for her help. At last after sometimes we went and still the lady was waiting for her son.

By: Shweta Jain