Monthly Archives: March 2015

SMALL ACTIVITY BIG LESSON

When a child starts learning writing he/she feels uncomfortable even hold a pencil. He/she only scribble and crumble the paper and throw it. Sometimes it’s fun to see them. Many children tear paper when they feel uneasy to write or even hold pencil, sometimes these activity show their angriness, fear and jealousy. It is often seen that whenever they are not success to express their feeling verbally they try to express through their writing patterns or colouring patterns.

Often kids copy to elder ones and try to do the same. Once I saw a child was sitting with crayons, pencils, eraser and some papers. The child was sketching lines on the papers and erasing the lines again and again. After a long time I saw he piled up of crumbled papers only one paper was kept properly with a beautiful picture. Hence I was totally baffled to see and wanted to know the reason so started opening all the crumbled papers one by one and found some lighter and some darker lines on the papers. Having seen it although I was totally perplexed but I thought and came to know that ………….

The mistakes are made by us, are like lighter and darker lines of pencil and we all assume like a pencil because all the lines are sketched by us whether they are light or dark. In the beginning of our life like kids we make small mistakes and used to be succeeded to erase them and then try to make bigger ones when we are failing to correct properly then feel repentance because if mistakes are made again and again, they always leave their impression on our character and become the cause of stumbling and nemesis but if we learn from them then be a good example for society.

From the small game of pencil I knew that this is the truth of our life that our small mistake can be big inspiration for us if it is taken as a lesson.

Make mistakes but learn from them because your mistakes only can make changes in your life and lead the life like a small kid because they usually are very determined and always try to correct even their small mistakes themselves.

Sometimes their small activity becomes a big lesson for us

By:Shweta Jain

 

ILLUSION

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One day when I peeped out from my window and saw that many people with a plate that was covered with a colourful cloth, were going towards a banyan tree, its branches were spreading over a wall of building. Hence I was perplexed to see the scene and thought that the tree must have had all virtues that’s why it is being worshipped.

Moreover at noon time I saw the area was crowded because they must have taken cooling effect under it. Few people were plucking its leaves and branches that must have been used for medical treatment. Thus I thought that a tree is more useful then I should also go to worship it .Therefore the very next day I also went to the tree with a plate in my hand to worship the tree. As soon as I reached near by the tree, I saw that many people were worshiping and I also tried to emulate that was being done. After that I sat for few hours under the tree and it was nice to have cooling effect under it then suddenly and I was shocked to have a glance of its roots and wide cracks on the wall. I thought that due to its roots must have gone into depth of building that’s why the wall is looking cracked.

Furthermore I came back to home with depressing mood and thought in spite of having all the virtues its roots can be dangerous because due to its roots the wall might be fall down.

Hence I thought that a person also has some good qualities as well as some bad qualities then why don’t we comfortable with his/her bad habits and qualities and despite of having all good why we give up a person because of his/her bad habits and qualities.

I came to know nothing is in the world that has all good qualities in it and it’s depending on our illusion how we handle and accept a thing or person.

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If we don’t focus its bad quality and find the good qualities they have then it can’t be harmful us.

I came to know that we can lead a happy life to change our illusion.

By: Shweta Jain

VOICE AGAINST RAPE

Very often it is seen that at every occasion, our inbox are flooded with messages and make us feel happy and special. Moreover it’s a good way to keep in touch with everyone even with whom we are not contacted for a long time.

Besides on this women ‘day I found my inbox flooded. Having read all the messages, I felt proud to be a woman but sometimes it shoots in my mind , the wishes and regards are received through messages, is given to woman.

In spite of knowing by everyone, women are pivotal of the world then why they are humiliated.

Seeing the increasing rate of rape cases in our society, it seems false getting messages for the regard of women because by whom we get meaningful and decent messages, by them we are often violated.

When a woman is haunted of rape, Not only she is being physically raped but mentally also she is being violated. Even when they raise their voice against it then many offensive questions are faced and are tried to repress their emotions. If their external appearance become the cause of it then why women are withsaree are not safe. Even small girls are repressed at a very initial stage of her life that becomes horrifying for them. Besides them their family members are also besieged with many question of society and their emotions are raped at each and every step. Even few cases are telecasted and publicized by media, are become a theme to make a movie by directors.

In addition to girls, boys are also assaulted. Sometimes our friends and relatives take advantage of our faith whatever we have in them.

If a woman is not regarded and not having assurance of her safety then why we celebrate women ‘day and daughter ‘day and why we send messages to each other

I think that it’s only a fashion to send messages, videos, chatting with each other  and we are addicted to.

If no action would be taken against it earlier, in every moment a woman, a girl will succumb.

By: Shweta jain

SMALL NUMBER, BIG RESULT

Having achieved grand success in any field we become over confident and ignore every things and events that make us repented.

Moreover due to lower digit, one number is also not valued whether it is 1 mark question in exam, 1 rupee coin or 1 drop of water however we forget that due to get less 1 number we can’t make 99 to 100. Hence our negligence towards small things and numbers become a cause of our failure or repentance.

The students who run around the clock in exams and often leave their question paper due to get 1 minute less and then they realize same as a dying person who needs 1 moment more to spend with his/her near and dear ones. Ask an interviewer who loses his /her job due to reaching 1 minute late.

Even 1 drop of water is considered precious for a thirsty person.

A rich man, despite of having Crore rupees in his bank account are useless if he doesn’t get 1 rupee coin on time. It is not important what we have, the most important is whatever we have on time whether they are person for help or money.

Although at each and every nook of life it warns us and shows its importance but is neglected by us

Many times 1number is not valued by me also but I came to know when my son lost a chess tournament due to get 1 number less and it made me regret. Earlier He had won many tournaments that ‘why we were over confident and didn’t give importance the small tournament and thought it would be easily win by him. The day when we reached and as soon as tournament was started, 4 rounds was won continuously by him and still 1 round was left to play I took it easy and said to him,” You will definitely win the tournament because 1 round is only left and I saw your name is at top three players list. The words make him loser because he didn’t focus on his game and lost the tournament.

The thought made me remorseful and couldn’t anything for him.

By:Shweta Jain