Generally people become disheartened when they feel humiliated and try to drag themselves into darkness. It may be either because of their appearance, their financial status or from any other reason. Often adolescents feel shy with their ugly physical appearance and feel embarrassed to face people. This situation make them non confident and affects their growth path. Sometimes societies try to make the people feel humiliated in the public by laughing on them and this situation creates a feeling of revenge in them. Whenever you are in this situation, you must accept it as a challenge instead of getting frustrated and taking revenge. You should make an innovative idea and work very hard out to prove your capability. Your determination and confidence will help you to flush out this problem. However sometimes it is very common that people laugh at others only for fun.
Few years ago I and my friend got a chance to exhibit our paintings at Lalit Kala Academy in New Delhi. That time although I was having only 5-6 paintings and my friend had only 7-8 but we were very enthusiastic to exhibit them. We were embarrassed to see that the very next room was flourished with a number of beautiful Madhubani paintings. In other rooms enormous mesmerizing paintings were also exhibited by the artists. Hence we were very disappointed to see our deserted room with few paintings. As soon as visiting hours started, no one entered in our room. At last at the end of the day few people came and they wrote very disappointing words in feedback. We felt shameful but somehow we gathered ourselves and tried to do much better for the next day.
The next day also all rooms were looking crowded except our room. After a long time one visitor came and said to us in a very critic manner that your works are good but you both need to strive to be a good artist. Therefore we became depressed but planned to make a creative idea to make our exhibition successful. We started making few greeting cards as our room could look attractive. To attract the visitors towards our room we displayed all the greeting cards near the entrance of the room. Visitors were attracted towards the cards and they appreciated our work. In a few moments all cards were sold out. Now our happiness was in seventh happiness because after being so humiliated we made ourselves successful.
Thus we all are humiliated and feel neglected many times in the journey of our life but our determination to do something can throw it out from our life.
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